Vegan Yoga Retreat in Goa

Escape To Goa Jan 2020

Escape To Goa Jan 2020

by Pradeep Krishnappa and Rachel Swallwood

Introduction

We are used to the idea that travel is attainable. It wasn't difficult to get visas to most countries, and planes could take you almost everywhere around the globe. Travel bloggers and influencers have become icons of the industry over the last few years, making travel look easy and simple. The travel industry encompasses 50 million jobs worldwide, and $5 trillion in revenue was expected for the year 2020-21. Most countries consider tourism to be a major contributor to economic growth.

Who could have predicted that a pandemic like this would occur, halting this global economic development? At Escape To…by Fairkonnect the safety of our travellers will always be our top priority. We did crisis management just before the lockdown and have been in touch regularly with our travellers about the present situation in the travel industries.     

Experts from the industry have predicted that travel will resume in phases, at least for the next 12 months: Phase 1- from June to September will be business mandatory travel, that may see a bit of efflux. Phase 2- October to January will be solo and family travel post vaccine and virus control. January 2021 onwards will be luxury and adventure travel. Clearly, leisure and adventure holidays are the worst hit.

Our company plans to focus on our clients for the rest of the year, to engage with them positively and energetically, while we're waiting for the world to safely reopen. In the meantime, we can plan, we can share,  we can read and we can reminisce… We are going to bring you a series of stories about our 2020 trips, before the COVID 19 lockdown. 


Escape To Goa…. 2020

In January 2020, Escape To...by Fairkonnect hosted a vegan yoga retreat with Erin Doppelt, an international spiritual educator, wellness speaker and retreat leader. During our time together we focused on yoga classes, meditation and chakra workshops, vegan food, and adventures exploring Goa’s unique heritage and nature. 

Goa was still a province of Portugal as recently as 1961! It was ruled by the Portuguese for over 450 years, until the Indian army won it in a 36-hour battle. Goan culture, cuisine and architecture are understandably heavily influenced by the Portuguese. Goa’s beaches were one of the factors that made it a popular destination, and unfortunately tourism started to develop around oceanside partying and raves instead of its rich fusion of culture. We offered our 13 travellers from 4 different countries a different perspective. 

Over the course of the vegan yoga retreat, we began our days with (Yoga) asanas. Erin led a hatha yoga and kriya practice every morning for 90mins, followed by a silent breakfast. Although some were skeptical of the silent breakfasts at first, most enjoyed having the time and space to continue sinking into their practices, often with journals in tow. It also helped the group to practice mindful eating, being conscious of every bite and swallow. This was no easy feat considering the buffets of freshly squeezed juices, idly, local breads, dal, fresh fruits, polli, poha, sambar and upma we were served every day. After breakfast we'd explore all that Goa has to offer in the comfort of our eco-friendly mini-bus. 

DAY 1 | The Adventure Begins 

We began our program in the Yoga Shala where Erin led the group through post-travel poses to help get over the jet lag. We focused on the first chakra and grounded ourselves in our new surroundings. After introducing ourselves to one another, we had a cleansing sage ceremony and set our intentions for what we’d like to gain from our time together in Goa.

Later that evening we had our inaugural dinner at a beautiful beachside restaurant in Mandrem. The food was a divine interpretation of the local cuisine, prepared to be vegan friendly. Conversations flew from one table to another and it was clear that although these women were from different parts of the world, they would become fast friends. 

DAY 2 | Heritage visit, Temples, Folk Dance and Traditional Home Cooked Food

For our first full day together we focused on the second chakra in our morning practice. In Sanskrit it is called Svadhistana, which means "sweetness." As the center of pleasure and desire, we honed in on what we want out of life, what brings us joy, and how we can tap into that sweetness every day. 

After a breakfast feast, we hopped on our bus. The first stop of the day was at the Arvalem Caves. The travelers were all wowed by the laterite hill, where the excavation and inscription “Sambapuravsi Ravi” dates back to the 6th century! The meaning is "synchronization of Shiva and Surya," the Hindu God and Goddess. The Shrine is a Pitha (Seat or Bench) with enshrined Linga (form of Shiva) in the form of cylindrical top and square bottom. 

For our second stop, we headed to a local village where a traditional dance and lunch was planned for the group. We experienced an exclusive demonstration of their folklore exhibited through chanting, grinding grains, musical instruments and coordinated movement. The words of the chants were passed down for so many generations in a language that is no longer spoken, so no one knows their true meaning! But they keep the tradition alive every time they come together to grind grains for making bread, chapati, etc. 

The delicious, and naturally vegan, traditional lunch we enjoyed deserves some elaboration. The culinary traditions in Goa are regionally divided in to Hindu, Muslim and Latin Catholic. The food that we tried today was Hindu Goan style. It uses tamarind and kokum to add sour notes, and jaggery for sweetness. The main spices are asafoetida, fenugreek, curry leaves, mustard with urad dal/lentils as their accompaniment. It is not very spicy, with a little bit of onion and garlic, but lots of coconut. They use varied vegetables like pumpkins, gourds, bamboo shoots, roots, etc. depending on the season. It was such an authentic local experience with 100% traditional vegan food. 

After lunch we headed towards northern Goa to Brahma Karmali. This temple is one of only two Brahma temples in India. What better place to meditate than a Brahma temple? As a group we practiced a mindfulness meditation: in a seated position, we closed our eyes and visualized feelings rooted into the earth, safe and secure.

On our way back, we visited Kaavi Art, a small village temple adorned with the Konkan Coast's unique Kaavi Art. Temples in India are usually very colorful and ornate so this monochromatic design, using red hematite and lime powder, was very unique. 

DAY 3 | Beach Bumming and Latin Quarters

Today's yoga and meditation focused on the third chakra and its fiery yellow principles. As the center of our personal power and will, we meditated on the question: What do I want to bring into the world? 

The group was all fired up after the encouraging chakra session. We were excited and ready to explore the famous Anjuna beach known for its food, flea markets and beachfront hangouts. In no time some travelers went right into the sea, some were soaking in the sun, and some hung out at the best beach cafes and shacks. We found an amazing cafe overlooking the sea that served vegetarian and vegan friendly food that we couldn't resist trying!

With a few hours of daylight left we headed towards Panjim City. We started to walk around Panjim and explored the Fontainhas Latin Quarter by foot. The area became a residential development in the 18th century, when headquarters of the Portuguese government were shifted to Panjim from Old Goa. Fontainhas was declared a UNESCO Heritage Zone in 1984. This was really a hidden hive in the busy city. We didn't want to miss the wall graffiti in the Latin quarters' well-maintained Chapel of Saint Sebastian. Built in 1800, it sits at the southern end of Fontainhas and has a number of interesting artifacts inside. As we headed North, we came across the unique architecture and white design of the Lady of Immaculate Conception Church. A Goan gem built in 1609, it was a perfect example of Portugal's lasting influence.  

For dinner we had south Indian dosas. Our travelers were very surprised to find out how different and tasty these crepe-like savory dishes were here compared to the dosas they'd tried before in their home countries. With full bellies, the group made its way to one of the oldest bars in the city. It had a great ambience and live Indo-Portuguese music. To get the full Indian experience it's important to have the local drinks AND the local food. We downed a few chilled Kingfisher beers, and called a round of shots to cap off the day.  

DAY 4 | Beaches, Flea Markets, Beers

Moving up the spinal column, we focused on the heart chakra. This energy center presides over love, compassion, and connections. As the middle point between the upper and lower chakras, it is also connected to the balance of forces, and equilibrium. Love for others must first come from love of self (you can't pour from an empty cup!) so we focused on how to practice self-love. Given a free day, we were able to explore whatever would make our hearts happy. For a lot of our travelers, that meant shopping! 

Goa is home to some of the most diverse shopping experiences in India. In the rest of the country you’ll see malls, boutiques and outlets of every kind, but if you’re looking to pick up a unique piece or bargain, you could spend a whole day exploring Arambol's flea markets. We spent a languorous afternoon feeling the sea breeze in our hair and soaking in the sun browsing through the hundreds of stalls that decorate Arambol every week. It's the perfect place to buy all of your beachwear, and most are made out of sustainable natural fabrics. If you're in the market for macrame, dreamcatchers, tribal marks, gypsy headgear, bamboo sling bags and summer dresses or jewelry, you can’t miss these colorful shops. The highlight of the market was one talented seamstress who makes dresses, shrugs, beach cover-ups, kurtas and more out of old saris! If you like a bit of kitsch in your wardrobe and don’t mind embellishments, her beach cover-ups are amazing. The icing on the cake is that if you have an old sari you want converted into a dress or accessories, she just takes one day to stitch it- if you're really lucky she might even do it on spot. Her shop is at the end of the market overlooking the beach, and we were definitely jealous of her "office" view! 

We had dinner at a beautiful veg restaurant that was just a few yards away from the beach. We indulged in a four-course meal of shakes, pastas with vegan cheese, rice, veggies, soups, salads, enchiladas with guacamole, raw mango pie, and, our favorite, spinach mushroom momos. 

DAY 5 | Organic Spice Farm

We had an early wake up call to get to Tanshikar's Working Spice Farm & Ecological Rest House in South Goa. Situated among the rainforest of Western Ghats at Netravali village, Sanguern Taluka, the specialty organic farm is home to a variety of genuine spices grown on 25 acres of land. Since 2005, owners Chinmay and Gauri have opened up the farm to guests to explore and learn about organic farming. The husband and wife duo have been carrying forward the legacy of their family's organic farming tradition, originating long before 'organic' was a buzzword. At Tanshikar Spice Farm we learned how different types of spices grow and also tested out tasty recipes made with ingredients grown at the farm. Our travelers loved the hands-on cooking class, and learning how to cook traditional South Goan cuisine with the freshly grown spices and vegetables. The focus was on lip-smackingly delicious vegetarian and vegan friendly dishes, all with their own health benefits. Gauri made sure all the ingredients are well explained and understood by our guests. We made: Narli bhat (rice prepared with coconut and Jaggery), Goan dal, chapati and pineapple curry. Gauri gave us all goodie-bags filled with traditional Goan masalas and recipes that we couldn’t wait to try! 

DAY 6 | Marine Conservation and personalized vegan cuisine 

Today we focused on the Third Eye center. The sanskrit name is Ajna, which can translate to 'command center' or 'to perceive.' It is the home of our intuition, seeing and imagination. To flex these muscles, we did a beautiful exercise where we sat in a circle, knees touching, and imagined what they wanted in life, like they already had it. The chanting and communal experience was very powerful and moving. 

With renewed energy and enthusiasm the group went on a marine conservation tour that was conducted by Terra Conscious. This organization, founded in 2017, is a marine conservation based social enterprise driven by a team of passionate conservationists based out of North Goa. The Ocean Biodiversity Experience is an excellent flagship programme and Goa’s only ethical dolphin watching experience! Their in-depth knowledge of the humpback dolphin, native to the Indian Ocean, and the magnificent marine life is remarkable. The view of the Arabian Sea was stunning, and everyone enjoyed feeling the sea breeze in their hair during the 2 hour boat ride. We were so lucky to have a dolphin sighting!! We also explored the river mouth and that marine habitat. There we learned about the ecological importance of mangrove trees, and spotted some bats and native birds like the Kingfisher. 

After being in the heat for 2 hours, there was something really exciting waiting for us… a delicious meal! Of course, food is a very essential part of our trips. Toro Toro Goa is a grillhouse along the pristine Arpora-Baga creek, and the vibe of the decor and music are perfect for a beach holiday. Chef Rohan, one of the best chefs in India, created an exclusive four-course vegan menu for us. We started with curried roasted cauliflower, kafir leaf and coconut soup which was simply perfect to whet our appetites. Our appetizer was spinach falafel with poached beetroot hummus- we knew we had more courses coming but kept going back for more of this one! We had a cooling watermelon, greens, and couscous salad with lemon dressing. And finally, wok tossed burmese curry with noodles absolutely left us all in awe.  To say that we were "full"after this meal would be an understatement.

 DAY 7 | Hot Air Balloon Adventure !!

This was the most anticipated day of the trip. The sun wouldn’t wait for us; we had a 3am wake up call and a two and half hour drive towards South Goa so that we could experience the sunrise by balloon. Trust us, it was all worth it! Flying in a hot air balloon is an unforgettable experience, and being airborne to see the first light of the day was breathtaking. The amazing 360-degree view illuminated the Deccan Plateau, the Arabian Sea, and the Konkan Forest below. Walking around Goa's historic landscape is a delight; having an aerial view in the soft morning light is another. We kept our cameras and phones poised and ready (but not too close to the edge!) as we sailed over coconut groves and quaint villages. 

If you’re afraid of heights, a balloon flight is the best way to face that fear. The peaceful ascent will allow you to get used to your surroundings calmly and gradually. The beautiful views will help you forget everything else, while giving you the sensation of floating. It feels like you are dreaming with your eyes open as you glide through the air. Since you travel with the wind, the only time you feel the breeze is when you change altitude.

The pilot spotted a landing site based on the time and geographical knowledge attained from flying in the area. We were glad that we had experienced and calm pilots who thoroughly explained the process of takeoff and landing. They soothed our anxieties and made us comfortable. Our landing plans changed due to the wind speed and the terrain, which meant we got more time in the air. Of course, none of us were complaining about that! 

When we got close enough to the ground, the pilot asked us to crouch down, turn sideways, and bend our knees slightly to soften impact of landing. One group landed so smoothly that they didn't even feel a bump when they touched the ground! Our other groups basket tipped over, but it wasn’t scary- it was all part of the fun! Every balloon flight is going to be unique in its own way; the wind, the terrain and the pilot can make a difference in every ride. But ours were as close to perfection as you can get. 

We had a free afternoon to recover from our early morning and met back up for dinner at a beachside cafe. We did our meditation and kriyas practice out on the sand, under the moonlight, listening to the waves crash on the shore. Then we shared a beautiful vegan meal together on a table that was adorned with fresh flowers. It was a divine day. 

DAY 8 | Heritage Home, Night Market

This was our last full day together as a group. Erin brought her deck of oracle cards (similar to tarot) and we each picked a card during our morning practice. It was a beautiful and unique way to share our experiences and perspectives together.  

In the afternoon we headed to Batim, one of the closest villages to Panjim city, where David Menezes gave us a private tour of the Casa Menezes Heritage Home. Perched between the Pilar Valley and Santa Ana Hillocks, this beautiful property is a perfect time capsule. Overlooking paddy fields and bordered with tall coconut palm trees, the 300 year old ancestral home of the de Menezes family is replete with teak, oak and rosewood carved antique furniture, original art and regal tilework. David told us stories of his family, and how they came to own certain pieces. A few steps away from the property is Batim Lake. A bird watchers paradise, this lake attracts a lot of migratory bird species. 

We couldn’t leave Goa without sampling the local drink, Feni. Feni is a traditional liquor distilled from the fermented juice of cashew apples. To begin our meal, David made a special fusion drink for us with a Feni base, freshly crushed sugarcane juice, and chilli. This was a perfectly balanced cocktail that none of us had tried before, or even could’ve imagined before coming to Goa. Another ‘must try’ drink  is kokum juice, or sherbet (not to be confused with sherbert!). A native Goan plant, Kokum berries are an essential component of the Goan food culture. Kokum juice is full of health benefits: it regulates blood sugar, protects your liver, helps decrease inflammation, is great for your heart, and could even help fight cancer! We were more than happy to try this purple colored juice. 

David served us a vegan lunch prepared in the local Latin style. He explained to us that authentic Goan cuisine is not about fancy equipment and utensils but rather the basic materials like earthenware, clay pots, slow cooking and home-ground fresh masalas with fresh ingredients. We feasted on massive servings of bindi recheado (Goan red masala) fry, bhaji (made from green leafy vegetables), Goan kaju curry (cashew curry), khatkhatem (mixed vegetable curry), and of course, the staple rice.  

After such a heavy meal we chilled by the Casa pool before heading to the special Saturday Night Market in Arpora. This is a great place not just for shopping, but also for feeling the Goan ambience. There is live music, bars, and restaurants serving foods ranging from organic salads and chocolate waffles to Greek food and local delicacies. You will find many stalls run by both Europeans and locals, making the ambience distinctively cosmopolitan. It is particularly popular with foreign tourists, and the hippie culture. We were glad we could shop, enjoy some live music, and unwind a bit on our last day in Goa.     

Day 9 | Good Bye

With our suitcases full of souvenirs and spices, our minds filled with happy memories, and our hearts full of love and appreciation, we headed our separate ways- some of us back to our homes, some on to adventures in other parts of India, and some to Sri Lanka. One thing is for sure, it was an unforgettable vegan travel adventure that was uniquely Goan!

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The Future of Travel Post Covid-19

A PANEL ON REIMAGINING Travel

Escape To recently hosted a Reimagining Travel panel for travel industry professionals and travelers, as travel has come to a halt due to COVID-19. With the travel industry as a whole at a standstill, we saw an opportunity to take this time to think about how the industry needs a reset and change. Through the years we’ve spoken to other travel operators and travelers who did not like the negative impacts that travel has had on the people and places they were visiting. Prior to COVID-19, many aspects of the travel industry were rapidly harming the environment and people whose very cultures and way of life are precious to our travel experiences. Thus, we started questioning whether we want to go back to a world where travel is harming the planet or do we want to rebuild a world and industry that is more sustainable, conscious and kind to the planet? 

As Arundathi Roy wrote, “Historically, pandemics have forced humans to break with the past and imagine their world anew. This one is no different. It is a portal, a gateway between one world and the next. We can choose to walk through it, dragging the carcasses of our prejudice and hatred, our avarice, our data banks and dead ideas, our dead rivers and smoky skies behind us. Or we can walk through lightly, with little luggage, ready to imagine another world. And ready to fight for it.”

Prachi Jain of Escape To along with our panelists, Wendy Werneth from The Nomadic Vegan, Mariellen Ward from Breathe Dream Go and Lauren Yakiwchuk from Justin Plus Lauren, are taking a stand to be a part of transforming the travel industry and coming out of this pandemic as a better and stronger industry. 

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Panel Takeaways 

  1. Post COVID-19, travelers will want to travel less, but be more selective by choosing trips that are both more meaningful and unique rather than commercialized, such as engaging in smaller group tours, ancestry trips, nature trips, eco-conscious trips and wellness trips. According to Justin Plus Lauren, these trips will allow travel to become a much more personal experience and allow people to become more immersed in the cultures they are visiting and provide them with a sense of self-discovery. 

  2. The growth of the vegan and vegetarian travel industry may continue thriving, especially in light of COVID-19. Wendy Werneth pointed out that the majority of infectious diseases, including COVID, are zoonotic, meaning they spread in non-human animals and jump to humans. To prevent the likelihood of future pandemics, less consumption, exploitation and contact with animals may take precedent to heighten the safety of travelers and reinforce eco-conscious travel efforts. 

  3. The development of a vaccine will be the turning point in travel safety. It will allow travelers to feel safer and may become an international travel requirement, along with travel medical insurance, in a post COVID-19 world, in order to ensure the safety of travelers and citizens from the tragedy of future pandemics. 

  4. Although the COVID-19 pandemic has lowered the carbon footprint of travelers on the environment, there are still negative ramifications of the lack of travelers such as a rise in poaching, less funding towards animal conservation efforts and less money in local economies. Travelers’ admission fees and presence both help to fund conservation and keep poachers away from popular safari destinations, ensuring the safety of the animals and their spending help local communities. Breathe Dream Go predicts that as travel bloggers begin re-entering the industry, there needs to be a concentrated effort towards responsible and authentic travel content and traveling to places where our money will help support animal protection efforts and local communities. 

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At the end of the panel, the attendees were broken up into smaller groups of 5 to discuss their aspirations for the type of travel that should thrive and the type that should fade away in a post-pandemic world. Several groups shared insights from their group discussions including taking more personal responsibility to take steps towards eco-conscious travel, how boycotting air travel may not be a solution to reduce carbon footprints, but instead focusing on advocating for greener jet fuel at the policy level, the ethics of beginning to travel this summer and on the types of industries that we hope fade away such as large cruises.


We hope this panel creates an understanding that in order to build a better travel industry we need to be proactive, rather than reactive, and make the changes needed to not only eliminate the potential for future pandemics but to also create a more conscious and compassionate future for the communities, environment and people we want to explore through travel. We at Escape To and along with our panelists, hope that you can join us in creating a more sustainable and kind future for travel. 

Did you miss the panel? Not to worry! You can download a copy of the panel to watch or listen to:

Reimagining Travel Panel Recording 

Do you have any questions, feedback or resources that will help us reimagine travel? Want to get in touch with the panelists? Get in touch with Escape To Director Prachi Jain at prachi@fairkonnect.com.

My Experience Moving to and Living in India During a Pandemic

By Rachel Swallwood

When I decided to do research for my master’s thesis in Bangalore, India, with the help of Escape To..., I knew that it would mean making major changes in my life. I sacrificed things like being with my family for holidays, celebrating birthdays with friends, my New York City apartment where I lived with my childhood best friend in a neighborhood that I adore, my job with coworkers that I looked forward to seeing every day- you know, little things. Now that I’ve made that wild dream of doing international research a reality, we’ve all found ourselves in some sort of pandemic-fueled dystopian nightmare.

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This is 100 Feet Road, one of the main stretches in my neighborhood. It used to take 10 minutes to drive down one block of this street. It’s hard to imagine now that it looks so peaceful.

I came to India in January when COVID-19 was confined to China, and the disease I was most concerned about was malaria. After living in NYC, I wasn’t too concerned about adjusting to city life in Bangalore. But OH, had I underestimated; NYC is organized chaos, and India was just chaos. I felt like a child who needed to relearn how to perform basic life skills, the Indian way.

I learned how to walk on sidewalks that would cause a riot at the ADA, and how to traverse congested streets lacking crosswalks, traffic lights, or even traffic lanes. In the city with the most traffic in the world, Bangalore autorickshaw drivers make NYC taxi drivers look like bachche (children in Hindi). I pretended that I was playing high-stakes Frogger at every intersection, trying to cross a rapid river of motorbikes and autos without getting squashed. Now that the nation is under lockdown, the streets that used to give me such anxiety are empty, except for a few cars and delivery drivers on motorbikes here and there. I had never seen any green roads on Google Maps, only red and dark red. Now, if I had a car, I could fly around the city! If I didn’t get caught by the police for breaking the lockdown, that is.

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This is actually white rice with ghee and spices. I got so excited to eat that I forgot to snap a photo when the biriyani came but, you can still see the banana leaf and sides you mix in with the rice.

I learned how to eat- with my hands! That is the norm in South India. There is a definitive art to mixing your rice with gravy, forming a little mound, scooping it up with all of your fingers, and pushing it into your mouth with your thumb. The last time I ate at a restaurant was for Andhra style biryani. It was the perfect meal to practice my phalange feeding skills by sopping up the decadently spiced rice on my banana leaf plate and mixing it with various curds, pickles, and sides. The restaurant used to have a line down the street every day, but not that day. All of the staff members were wearing masks and gloves. The city officially locked down a few days later. Now, despite the number of times a day I’ve been washing my hands, I’ve still been opting for forks instead of fingers.

I learned how to talk. Although most people in Bangalore speak some degree of English, this version of ‘English’ is often not the same ‘English’ that I know. Arguably more important than words, I learned the ubiquitous head wobble. I wasn't aware of how much I nod my head up and down until my first day at the NGO, when my new coworkers were all repeatedly shaking their heads laterally. I wondered if they understood me as my head went up and down like a broken bobblehead and theirs went side to side. I realized this diagonal shaking, seeming to be led from the chin, has far more range than a yes/no nod. From my interactions I think that it can also mean maybe, maybe not, I understand, I don’t understand, I agree, I disagree but I realize it is pointless to argue with you, what’s up, OK, or thank you. The faster the wobble, the more enthusiastic or sincere the meaning; the person really understands or really agrees, while a slower wobble is more along the lines of ‘I don’t understand’ or ‘I want to say no but that would be rude so I’m going to make this noncommittal gesture to acknowledge the fact that you have spoken.’ For example, take this conversation I had with my doorman the other day:

Me: Hello! *fast head wobble**wave hello*

Him: Hello! Hi! *fast head wobble*

Me: It looks like it’s going to rain soon.

Him: *slow head wobble*

Me: *pointing up to the sky* Rain, today.

Him: *looks up**medium speed head wobble* Oh, rain! Yes, rain today.

Me: Well, have a good day! *fast head wobble**wave goodbye*

Him: Good day ma’am! *fast head wobble*

He is the only person I talk to out loud, in person, every day now during lockdown. Our conversations are never more complex than that. Most of the time we just say hello.

I also needed some potty training. Luckily, I have experience with, and love using, the squat toilets that are common here. But most newer establishments, and my apartment, have what Indians refer to as Western toilets : our familiar friend, John. The fun new addition is a high-powered water hose that functions like a supercharged handheld bidet. The spray does all the cleaning, and toilet paper is optional for drying purposes. Lots of public places don't supply it at all. It’s a much more sustainable system! So, when I started hearing about toilet paper shortages in the U.S. I couldn’t help but laugh because that is such a non-issue here. One of my best friends is a nurse and he summed up toilet paper usage like this: “If you got poop anywhere else on your body and used only a piece of paper to wipe it off, you would never think that it’s clean.” He's got a good point!

All of these skill adjustments weren't too hard to make over time, after I oriented to the rhythm within the Bangalorian chaos. Now we're all needing to reorient ourselves in this new ‘reality' of a global pandemic, I'm just doing it far from home. The cultural differences sometimes add another layer of confusion to my qua-routine. Before lockdown, I was going into the field 1-4 days a week for my research, thinking I was truly having a positive impact on people’s lives. Now I'm staying inside my apartment as much as possible, trying to make sure I don’t have a negative impact on people’s lives by unknowingly spreading coronavirus. I had lots of plans that I’ve needed to cancel, like everyone has. My sister and cousin were planning to meet in Thailand to celebrate a milestone birthday. I would have gone to Agra to visit the Taj Mahal at the end of March. A friend from the UK and I talked about trekking for a long weekend in Coorg. Not to mention the reason I came here in the first place, all of the fieldwork I was supposed to be doing for my thesis is on hold indefinitely. Thankfully my thesis advisor has been very flexible.

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The view from my rooftop — peep those coconuts!

Despite all of this madness I am grateful for so many reasons, and I make sure to remind myself of that gratitude. Every. Damn. Day. This has been the perfect time to realllllllly put my meditation and self-care practices to the test. It hasn’t been all rainbows and sunshine, although admittedly almost every day has been sunshine and 90°F. I have had several mental breakdowns. I have cried and been unable to verbalize what exactly caused those sudden saltwater outbursts- and that’s ok. Most days I am very content doing yoga on my roof, spotting butterflies in the coconut trees, and cooking myself delicious curries saturated with turmeric and ginger.

I am thankful to have such an amazing family and caring friends. With WhatsApp calls, Zoom meetings, and Facebook messages I am definitely keeping in touch with everyone back home more during this Pause. My 94-year-old rock star Grandma even learned how to use Zoom so that we could talk every week! I feel beyond lucky every time I get to see her face and hear her voice. I can’t wait until I can hug her again.

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Perhaps our family’s 2020 holiday card???

I’m dreaming of the day when I can travel further than the grocery store (although the grocery store is pretty exciting- it's mango season!). When we’re finally able to travel again, I wonder how different it will be. Post 9/11 we had to adapt to taking our shoes off at checkpoint screenings, funneling our liquids into 3.4 oz containers, and chugging our water bottles in the security line because we forgot that they were full, OOOOPS! Post COVID-19, will every airport have thermal scanners as part of their security screenings, like I experienced in African airports during the Ebola outbreak in 2014? Will you only receive a visa if you’ve got proof of your vaccination history, or will countries require proof upon arrival? Could airlines even make vaccination requirements? Instead of trying to cram as many passengers as possible onto a plane or train, will new models take social distancing into account? When choosing travel destinations from now on, will we think about things like: “would I like to be stranded in this place if there was no form of public entertainment?” and “how easy is it to get back home from this place? Am I near any major transportation hubs?” or “what is the population density in this location?” and "how do I feel about the quality of their healthcare system?” Along with the excessive spare pairs of socks and underwear we inevitably bring on holiday (everyone does that, right?), will a face mask and gloves be on everyone’s packing list? Or perhaps a multi-functional bandana? You can use it as a headband during a hike, or to cover your mouth and nose at the first sign of coughing!

While this may not be the picture-perfect trip that I had envisioned, it is definitely the trip of a lifetime. I’ve learned so much, like what the properties of ashwagandha are, what white light energy healing is, how my hair looks like without any products in it (not as frizzy as I’d feared!), and how to identify local bird species based on their chirps. I've also learned how to do laundry in a bucket and hang it out to dry in the sun, and how to use my Bunsen burner-like stove without blowing up my whole building. I’ve had an immeasurable number of new experiences like watching a full series in a foreign language (which is where I learned the word bachche) and having my temperature taken at the bank. After all, isn’t that what travel is all about? Learning and experiencing new things? So, I’ll be out here, indefinitely, learning and experiencing.